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Wednesday, August 28, 2013

Don't Blame Yourself

This is a response I posted to a young writer on "WriteHere" . Maybe there are some others with a similar situation. Hope this helps a little.


Do not put the blame on yourself or think it is you personally that is the cause of this strange behavior by his parents. They, never meeting you, don’t really know you and would probably have a problem with any young girl their son was with. They or the mother, most probably, does not want to share her son with another female and is one of those mothers that cannot live with the reality that someone else, (in her mind, another “women”) is getting the attention of her precious son and will take him away from her.  Or maybe this is not the case and they really are just too strange to understand. Either way don’t beat yourself up over this, it has nothing to do with you personally. If this boy wants to be with you bad enough, he will stand up to his parents; or mother, and defend you. If he doesn’t then you must make a decision, should I stay or should I go?

I don’ t know your age but I take it you are still very young. The world is a big beautiful place when you are young, so much to explore and so much to learn, don’t live it frustrated, especially over some boy! That is no way to carry on, there are many people you have yet to meet, some will be good and you know, some not so good and some just downright WT???

Youth is a special time in your life but it is fleeting, before you know it you will be looking back and wondering where it all went. Don’t spend it with someone who only brings you frustration, there are many other good people out there who would really appreciate you and like you for who you are. I hope you find them or they find you, whichever. Unless you like this boy so much that you simply cannot live without him ( and that would be a shame because you are too young to be so tragic) you should just pull up stakes and move on. Experience other people, you are too young to get hooked on one person, this is all a part of youth. You will have many relationships and friendships and you will learn something from each one to take with you through life’s journey. You will meet someone that you think is “the one” and fall deeply in “like” with them; not love for heaven’s sake. If you are as young as I think, you are not mature enough to experience real love, I mean really, real love . Don’t take it too hard, there are many people in their 20’s and older that are still not mature enough to know really, real love.  You may fall into and out of “like” several times before you are ready to move on. Don’t worry about it, that is all a part of youth. The pain will soon go away and you will learn from it. Become stronger and move on to get to where you will eventually find the one you are meant to be with and really know, “this is the one”.

You need to experience life more, learn a few things and discover yourself, find out who you are before you allow someone into your life close enough to have so deep an effect on you. Your life, your very soul is the most precious gift you have that you can give to someone else, the most precious. Hold on to it and guard it. When you do give it you should know in you heart of hearts that you are confident in who you are and that you are bestowing this precious gift of yours to the right person;  someone who will protect it and love it as much as you do. When you are ready to move from “like” to “love” you will know it in your heart and soul. You will notice a difference in you that may be very confusing for a time, when it won’t go away and you feel like you’re losing your sanity,  you will just know. Take your time, this is not something to rush into, remember, you are a precious gift not to be given lightly and you can only fall in love for the first time once! If you are lucky and through the grace of God, once will be enough.

 Once is  tough enough and there is no feeling on earth like when you finally know and make that first big step. The first time is the best time, you may have a second chance, but you will always remember your first.  So think about who you are with, is this person helping you grow, can you be yourself when you’re are with this person? Can you see yourself with this person a year from now or more, how do you see your life with them? If you do it right maybe those first time memories can be with your first one.

It can be done, though many have tried and failed, but it can be done.

I know I ran a little long, but I hope this helps.

Tuesday, August 27, 2013

Does God just let things Happen?


God does not let anything happen. God, if one chooses to believe, put us here and He gave us free will to make our own decisions as to how we live our life and how we treat others. He gave us his divine word spoken through the Holy Spirit in the form of the Bible. It is the best instruction manual for life know to man, in spite of what other man made earthly religions may say. God leaves it entirely up to you, either read the Bible, learn, find answers to life’s difficulties and trials and have a conversation with Him or ignore the Bible and go through life with no direction, clueless and alone without the help of God, through the Holy Spirit to guide you through the rough times and those times when you don’t have an answer and no other earthly person has the answers as well.

Why is it that when things go awry and not the way we want, then we think of God and want to blame Him, when we never ever think of Him any other time. We don’t give Him even two minutes of our precious time, or ever consider opening a Bible to have a conversation with Him. God does love us, believe it or not, but He wants us to love Him back, is that really too much to ask. If you really love someone, don’t you want them to love you back? If they don’t love you back, how does that make you feel? Are you always going to be there for them whenever they may need someone to talk to or help them get through a difficult time the way God does for us when we need someone in the same way?

You can ignore God but He is not going to go away, He will always be there for you, all you need to do is to come to Him, He will always be there waiting for you, He has the time, and the patients.


The world is a dangerous place, nature is by nature, very beautiful and very violent. There are many bad people, Godless and evil, those who choose to live a life without God or any semblance of morality. As I stated earlier, we all have free will, some just choose to be evil and Godless and do harm to others, maybe due to external influences or the influence of other evil people who deceive them.

So you see it is our responsibility to use that free will for good and love for our fellow human being and not for evil and mayhem. Would you prefer a God, if you will, that denies you free will and makes you do exactly what He wants you to do? That is what some people try to do and it is never a good thing when it happens.

That is not how God operates, we are here to make our own decisions and hopefully learn from those decisions. When a terrible act of nature occurs, or a tragic accident happens, God is not letting it happen, He sees what is happening but cannot intervene because it is all a part of our human experience and our earthly existence. However God is there for us, to comfort us in our time of need and to help us understand. The trouble is not enough people look to God for answers, comfort and understanding, but instead blame Him for the things they do not understand and that are too enormous for them to comprehend.

As His children, God feels the pain and anguish in us and He hurts for us as any loving father would. Can your earthly father be with you at all times, everywhere you go? When something goes wrong that is not within his control, is it correct to blame him? Can you go to him for comfort and understanding and a loving touch? I hope you can, but what if you have no father, then what? God is our Heavenly father, our spiritual father and he is with us always and will forever be there for us.

Instead of blaming Him for the mishaps, the tragedies, the awful things that go wrong, stop for a moment and think about what happened and turn to God for the answers and understanding. He is always listening for you and wants to hear from you. What have you got to lose other than that hopeless, painful, confused feeling deep in your soul.

Why do you think you feel that way in the first place? It is because we are His children and our soul is a part of Him and He feels what we feel. He wants us to come to Him so he can teach us and help us to grow and give us the love and understanding that can only come from Him. Life if tough, why go through it alone, your Heavenly father is there for you so open a Bible or give Him a call and say hello. You won’t be disappointed, really.


 

America, The Bible and The Dream


America, The Bible and The Dream

 

I just watched a program called “The Bibles influence on America”, which was very interesting and informative, however one glaring question came to mind and I couldn’t help but think, what about today? The narrator spoke of the men who established this experiment of ours and how their lives and the bible were intertwined. You will never see any of this in any school, not one, not ever. The origins, the people and the events that led to the founding of this country is no longer considered required learning, it is considered to be something that happened long ago, forgotten and not relevant today. The men responsible are now thought to be evil “white men”. Forget that what they gave us is a country unlike any on earth and that their love of God translated into love of country and declared “…that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights,”

So what about current day, does the bible and the reverence of God have influence on America or the men that we now entrust with the responsibility of protecting and preserving the ideals and origins of this once great nation? The answer is obvious, just look around and see what is going on and what has been going on for the past 50 years. The answer is a resounding NO, our nation’s leaders and our current government bears little or no resemblance to what originally defined us as a nation. Any influence the bible may have had on our founders and the ideals they put forth as a result have long been forgotten, replaced or ignored. Today we have few if any true statesmen, Godlessness and corruption are the order of the day. The commandments which were once looked upon as a standard that all Americans respected and tried to live by are now replaced with Liberal doctrine that teaches what used to be considered as moral and patriotic is false and not the way we should live our lives. Our leaders and those in the public arena of influence and ideas are for the most part immoral and shameful in the way they conduct themselves. God is laughed at by them and those of us that do speak of God and love of country are called kooks, radicals, and a host of other names by them, which the agents of (mis)information use over and over to legitimize their Godless claims and their treasonous and immoral behavior.

All one need do is look at what is happening to our nation right now. Who are the ones trying to bring back civility, common sense, and the values that once defined us as a nation? Who are the ones trying to bring us together as a people so we can once again be the great nation we once were, those so many years ago and who are the one tearing us apart, dividing us and telling us that we have no alternative but to turn to them and the government they have created for us. They tell us to trust them as they befool the American people and give handouts to the very people they have been deceiving and have kept in shackles for a generation and longer.

The American dream that once was and any hope of it becoming a reality for all Americans ever again has been systematically ripped from our grasp, beaten, murdered and buried.  We now have a government that is redefining and reshaping America and our way of life. This is not so difficult to comprehend. If you can be intellectually honest with yourself for just one minute you will see that this has been going on for some time now and it only gets worse as the days and week go by.

When I was a child in the 1960’s I would watch a program on PBS called “The Great American Dream Machine”, it was a good show and I still remember in one episode they were interviewing people in Europe about the American dream. The segment concluded with the comment that Europeans thought that the only difference between a rich American and a poor American was that a poor American washed their own Cadillac. I remember thinking as a young lad, how cool is that! Well, it may have been that way for awhile, but it had to end. Sometimes things change for the better, sometimes for the worse.  America has turned away from the things that once made us a great nation and a prosperous people. We have turned our backs on God, morality, civility, patriotism, and we have turned over our sovereignty to those who do not have our best interest in mind.

Can we get back to the Godly roots that founded this country, the promise of prosperity and the hope of a dream?

As it is stated in the words our “Declaration of Independence”:

We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.--That to secure these rights, Governments are instituted among Men, deriving their just powers from the consent of the governed, --That whenever any Form of Government becomes destructive of these ends, it is the Right of the People to alter or to abolish it, and to institute new Government, laying its foundation on such principles and organizing its powers in such form, as to them shall seem most likely to affect their Safety and Happiness. Prudence, indeed, will dictate that Governments long established should not be changed for light and transient causes; and accordingly all experience hath shewn, that mankind are more disposed to suffer, while evils are sufferable, than to right themselves by abolishing the forms to which they are accustomed. But when a long train of abuses and usurpations, pursuing invariably the same Object evinces a design to reduce them under absolute Despotism, it is their right, it is their duty, to throw off such Government, and to provide new Guards for their future security.--Such has been the patient sufferance of these Colonies; and such is now the necessity which constrains them to alter their former Systems of Government. The history of the present King of Great Britain is a history of repeated injuries and usurpations, all having in direct object the establishment of an absolute Tyranny over these States. To prove this, let Facts be submitted to a candid world.

He has refused his Assent to Laws, the most wholesome and necessary for the public good.
He has forbidden his Governors to pass Laws of immediate and pressing importance, unless suspended in their operation till his Assent should be obtained; and when so suspended, he has utterly neglected to attend to them.
He has refused to pass other Laws for the accommodation of large districts of people, unless those people would relinquish the right of Representation in the Legislature, a right inestimable to them and formidable to tyrants only.
He has called together legislative bodies at places unusual, uncomfortable, and distant from the depository of their public Records, for the sole purpose of fatiguing them into compliance with his measures.
He has dissolved Representative Houses repeatedly, for opposing with manly firmness his invasions on the rights of the people.
He has refused for a long time, after such dissolutions, to cause others to be elected; whereby the Legislative powers, incapable of Annihilation, have returned to the People at large for their exercise; the State remaining in the mean time exposed to all the dangers of invasion from without, and convulsions within.
He has endeavoured to prevent the population of these States; for that purpose obstructing the Laws for Naturalization of Foreigners; refusing to pass others to encourage their migrations hither, and raising the conditions of new Appropriations of Lands.
He has obstructed the Administration of Justice, by refusing his Assent to Laws for establishing Judiciary powers.
He has made Judges dependent on his Will alone, for the tenure of their offices, and the amount and payment of their salaries.
He has erected a multitude of New Offices, and sent hither swarms of Officers to harrass our people, and eat out their substance.
He has kept among us, in times of peace, Standing Armies without the Consent of our legislatures.
He has affected to render the Military independent of and superior to the Civil power.
He has combined with others to subject us to a jurisdiction foreign to our constitution, and unacknowledged by our laws; giving his Assent to their Acts of pretended Legislation:...”

In every stage of these Oppressions We have Petitioned for Redress in the most humble terms: Our repeated Petitions have been answered only by repeated injury. A Prince whose character is thus marked by every act which may define a Tyrant, is unfit to be the ruler of a free people.”

This is our history and to many Americans it still means something. It is the reason so many people throughout our short history have risked so much and given up so much to arrive at our shores. Unfortunately this has been forgotten and disgraced along with many of the other historical documents that this country was founded on. Now our shores are ravaged by molesters and we are losing our identity as Americans. Lady Liberty has been raped and no one is coming to her defense, the barbarians are at the gate and we have our heads down texting on our “smart phones”.

Maybe the American Dream is dead, but maybe we can resurrect it. It will take all Americans, ALL, to work together, as one people, as one nation under God, but it just might be possible. It might have been a dream, but it was our dream, we fought for it and we earned it. The dream was alive once, but now it is just a memory, maybe it can be again. Is the return of America worth it? Is the promise of hope, Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness worth the effort? That question has yet to be answered.

 

 

Monday, August 19, 2013

What Me Worry?


What Me Worry?

The whole world is going absolutely berserk, stupidity and irresponsible juvenile behavior have become normal and acceptable. Hate and blatant falsehoods are a daily occurrence and never questioned.  Christians and Jews are being persecuted and slaughtered around the world and no one notices or cares the least bit. The political system is broken and corrupt but the deception, shame and oppression goes on and is never questioned. The lies of the state run media are believed and repeated by the immature mindless masses who do not want to know the truth, refuse the truth and cannot handle the truth if and when it does somehow manage to penetrate their sheltered little protected fantasy world of denial and juvenile irresponsibility.
So what, I can’t be bothered and I don’t care because I have “NFL Sunday Ticket”!